Posted by curtm on August 25, 2006, at 9:37:43
In reply to Re: Why am I weeping? Finelinebob, and others » llrrrpp, posted by finelinebob on August 24, 2006, at 21:05:51
>> I can't speak from experience on this particular topic, but healthy people have insecurities. I think they accept the securities they receive more than the insecurities they invent, tho.
My brain is stuck on the *expectation* thing today. ugh. I think the insecurities we invent are somehow closely tied to that. I want this, I don't get it, I become insecure. Again, giving without expectation will most likely produce a more clear and open YOU and you may find yourself the reciever of good things. But don't expect that.
Jost, everyone does have expectations and dissapointments, but I think how we relate to those two things will determine our secure/insecure status.
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