Posted by alexandra_k on December 5, 2013, at 21:33:42
In reply to Re: why one should have to learn this, posted by Dinah on December 5, 2013, at 11:50:22
well... i just find it amusing watching bob and lou get their geek on over the civility rules. i... i simply don't follow the conversations. maybe i don't try hard enough. i don't know. i just... don't feel any kind of tug at all to try and make things better or whatever. and i don't feel like lou is upset with me about anything... i guess because he isn't. perhaps because i don't post much to meds... i don't post to faith... i don't know.
i just... well... sometimes it is hard for people to get the help they need irl. to... feel heard. feel like there are people who can hear you. engage with you. i know the frustration of that. and i feel... happy for lou that bob seems to get him some times. that bob can engage with him. i think that is good.
i hear that other people feel upset... wish lou would stop it... i think... the harm to lou of stopping it would be greater than the harm to them if they refrained from reading these threads. i just... do. i see most of the people complaining... have good therapy relationships irl. etc. i...
it is easy to help those whom it is easy to help. perhaps. i think it is good that bob can help some people here who perhaps might have a harder time of it irl... perhaps in part because of the medium here. perhaps in part because of who he is. probably a combo of both. whatever...
whatever.
i think it is nice.
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