Posted by violette on July 22, 2010, at 15:26:58
In reply to Re: Check This Out! Bob Shares........... » violette, posted by Dinah on July 22, 2010, at 14:49:28
Dinah, I am sorry I said something to lead you to feel hurt. No, I don't generally talk about why I'm leaving a party to go to another. Of course, if there was an ongoing discussion as to why everyone was leaving the party, such as a group standing outside, or the hosts asks why everyone's leaving the party, I would likely join the discussions to add my opinions and try to help resolve the problem.
I have said there are supportive people here, that is a fact. It is also a fact that people post and sometimes no one answers...or one person may answer, while a drug discussion gets a dozen posts. That is a fact, not an opinion.
And the Administration forum is a place where people reguarly-like a group standing outside leaving the party--seem to discuss reasons for leaving. There are ongoing discussions here about the lack of forum members and people leaving, and efforts to improve the site. And I choose to talk about it.
And I am doing well and am confortable with the discussion, and hope that the site will improve to be more amneable to a mental health community, as there are repeated, ongoing discussions about the lack of members here and policies...including your own opinions about the effect the forums policies have on others-such as a rating system...
My posts are not much different than yours, as the policies and decisions have upset me too-as some have upset you. And I choose to talk about it too, as you have. Just becaues I am leaving the party does not mean I should not express my feelings that have obviously affected me. Talking about it is a healthy thing for me. Shoving it inside is not. And the result-maybe it could contribute to improvements to this site. Either way, it is positive to talk about it; I am not seeing this in a possible negative light as you pointed out.
I hope you are well too, and if you are not comfortable with the issues I am discussing, or my posts, I am sorry. :(
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