Posted by muffled on April 3, 2009, at 22:37:50
In reply to Re: safety and division, posted by Dr. Bob on March 9, 2009, at 4:31:53
> Would you say I'm dense (not getting your point) or inflexible (getting it, but disagreeing with you)? Either way, I understand that it could feel like a great divide. If I'm not getting it, I'd still like to, could you repeat it?
>
> BobWell FWIW, I think you come across as both.....
I think you appear dense, cuz you do not undertsand what we keep saying to you. Not to say you ARE dense, but that you seem to be unable to get the point. We all have our weak spots and perhaps this is yours. Not that you are a bad person....but ya, because of your position as owner of this site, its kinda frustrating trying to deal with you on this stuff.
As for inflexible(getting it, but disagreeing with you)? ......I don't think its neccessarily that(though it may be the case some of the time). I once again wonder if you appear inflexible because you DON'T get it.
So,
both.
Or maybe not.
I don't know you, alls I know is from what little interaction there has been here on babble. I don't know your values or life circumstances or anything about your FOO. So no I don't have a clue.
I'd like to think you do mean well, but perhaps just suffer a slight deficit in understanding some things.
Or maybe...
well.
I dunno, I like to just keep the, 'you mean well' thot.
Take care,
Muffled
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