Posted by Nadezda on January 23, 2009, at 16:11:48
In reply to Re: a recent sequence... » Deputy 10derHeart, posted by stellabystarlight on January 23, 2009, at 12:48:11
For what it's worth, I do understand the blocks.
I understand why things happen-- not every time, but usually.
I'm sure I'll be blocked at some future time, when I lose my cool and post in a less than careful or kind way. I've done it before (not been as kind or careful as I'd like) and I'm concerned that I'll do it again.
It does depend on how the person at the receiving end of the unkindness reacts. Some people are okay; others report and ask for a sanction. This results in what seems like erratic and in that sense unfair results. But it makes sense.
Could it be done in another way? yes. Would it be better, or worse? possibly both.
I happen, for better or worse, to think this is a pretty fair system, given the complexity of running a large and complicated board.
I know it feels really bad at times, and I empathize with that. One wants to change it, protest against it, and have one's voice heard. That's why we have the admin board. We can at least protest--if not protect the person from feeling hurt--, even if not change the outcomes.
I wish it could be more ideal.. And it's part of why it's important for people to show support and caring for people who're blocked and sanctioned. Here-- or where the posts were made. I'm glad people are doing that.
But I do understand the way things are done.
Nadezda
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