Posted by BayLeaf on December 25, 2008, at 11:05:34
In reply to Re: you're un-pbced, happy holidays )Dinah or someone » BayLeaf, posted by muffled on December 24, 2008, at 23:04:14
Muffled - Like I've said before, new name, old poster.
I get the whole history. But when Bob decided to walk away and leave the administration to deputies, it is their decision to allow that to happen. Don't we all allow people to treat us one way or another? I know the deputies did this for the good of the Babblers. That's extremely generous! They are good people.
But, Dinah and others should not have to bare the burden of running Babble via his convoluted tippy-toe rules. It was unfair to dump Babble on them, and takes advantage of their emotional attachment to Babble and Babblers, and perhaps Bob.
By allowing him to do this - they are enabling him to continue the age old "cycle of abuse".
He'll show up with flowers and a smiley face once in a while...then he's gone again. It irks me to no end to see him get away with it.
If he does not want to admin Babble, he ought to discuss his options with the International Society for Mental Health Online. I believe he's on the board. I'm sure they can come up with a better alternative than walking away.
Bay (guessing she'll see you next year!)
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