Posted by muffled on December 22, 2008, at 20:42:55
In reply to Admin, posted by muffled on December 22, 2008, at 20:03:45
and FWIW I have NEVER felt unsupported by babblers. Maybe misunderstood, but never ever unsupported.
Some babblers may choose to take a step away from me which saddens me, cuz it just bout kills me to not be able to support them when I see them hurting, but then what I need to understand(its been explained to me by babblers TY) is that I have to learn to let go. That even when I am trying to be supportive, somehow I can be triggering to others. I need to understand that this is so, even if I do not understand why (though I dearly wish I did). So I goto step back. Which I don't personally find easy, but which I MUST respect. I guess its a good life lesson. I am learning. But ya, its another thing that makes it hard to be here.
(((((ALL Babblers, every one, and lurkers, and MIA babblers too, and Bob, we ALL matter))))
So I guess Babbles not perfect, babblers are not perfect, I know for a fact that I am FAR from perfect(I won't say what we really think of me), and Bob is not perfect either.
But I guess we just goto to try to respect each other no matter what, and try and be supportive as we can, and try and understand that sometime words here fall so short of what we intend them to mean. And that being so, try and trust one another to being best intentioned in our writings.
God I am boring. I go now.
M
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