Posted by Fivefires on August 12, 2007, at 19:59:44
In reply to Re: I cannot post here ever again » Fivefires, posted by sunnydays on August 12, 2007, at 17:47:26
I wanted to reply to you personally sunnydays, but you don't have babble feature on.
I have some friends here who know me better than others. If I could talk to you alone sunnydays, you might understand me better.
I don't understand why some people don't have their babble feature on.(?) I'm always thinkin', 'Do they like have a bigger and better life than me or something'? I know, great self-esteem, huh? Does anyone else ever wonder about this? It's like the more a person hides, the more you want to see them!
I just saw a situation here where two people I care about were upset and tried to help.
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I'm not sure you can make assumptions about how another person would feel.
>I remember thinking why didn't the poster say 'I feel hurt or violated' and thinking this person is really angry and attacking the previous poster. I can't recall if poster said 'I feel angry'. I don't know where 'I assumed' for sure, but 'I've been called on the carpet' for doing this in my life b4. Maybe you'd include my post and I could better see my error.
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I saw a problem before reading Ozland's response, just for the record.
>When I speak w/ someone outside babble, I'll either ask them to be discreet, or I'll say I don't care if the whole world knows. How could you be sure the latter wasn't the situation?
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I don't think that Ozland needs to ask forgiveness for wishing her privacy to be maintained.
>Of course not, but there's kind of a gray line there. Do we assume everything outside not be brought in? I think when we talk about things that are really private, it's sometimes important to add that we wish the person to be discreet. It might be ez to forget for some people now and then. I've probably done it and not even realized it. I care about privacy more now than when I first started here, because of situations like this occurring. Now, I'm so worried my child*en will read all of this when I'm 6foot under, they'll all come and stomp on me!
And, no, I wouldn't presume to orchestrate someone to ask for forgiveness. I think I've mispoken or been misunderstood. Actually, I was just looking @ my sticky, stuck on my lamp here. It's a Hawaiian word, hemolele, and it reads 'forget about it and ask for forgiveness ...' and then gets more religious, so won't go on.
I was truly just sharing an idea for everyone involved, including myself.
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