Posted by henrietta on March 21, 2006, at 20:12:44
In reply to Re: blocks » Dr. Bob, posted by henrietta on March 21, 2006, at 19:37:17
I forgot to mention that it feels to me that what you do NOT model is sensitive behavior. Where I come from, if a person is honestly trying to communicate something that is important to him/her, the response "live and learn", for example, is felt as being extremely dismissive and insensitive. Short one-liners to heart-felt
communications are widely perceived to be dismissive and insensitive. I can't tell you how often I've felt kicked in the stomach by your responses to other posters---and I do mean this absolutely sincerely. OTHER POSTERS. Nothing personal. I've had no personal stake in these exchanges. I've merely been a witness, but I've felt deeply hurt and angry. I don't know. I just feel you really need to sit down in a deep place and question yourself.
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