Posted by JenStar on July 28, 2005, at 15:08:28
In reply to Re: olive branch? » JenStar, posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 14:30:26
hi gabbii,
thanks! I think I offered those possible motives in my post because they are things *I* might do, or have done in real life -- they're motives I can ascribe to myself (whether I'm proud of it or not) in various situations in my past.Now that I've calmed down, I can see there are obviously many other motives -- kindness, desire to understand, giving a second chance, trying to connect, etc. Sometimes when I'm in a p***y mood I focus on the negative and forget about the positive stuff. But in general I really WANT and LIKE to be positive...so I'll try to stay this way! :)
Anyway, you're right, it's hard to understand why we do things...I guess that's the fun of analysis and self-analysis, right?
thanks for understanding! :)
JenStar
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