Posted by alexandra_k on July 12, 2005, at 4:57:19
In reply to Re: the next best thing, second try » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on July 12, 2005, at 4:46:54
> I think I've come around as much as I'm going to. I've made significant adjustments and accomodations.
Yes, you have :-)
I'm not saying you should abandon your principles - not at all. I just saying to wait and see... Wait and see.
> I'm not planning to spend my emotional capital trying to roll that boulder up the mountain over and over again.No. Trying to effect change can be frustrating. Maybe thats why this doesn't bug me so very much. I'm more interested in trying to understand. Because where I'm at right now your pov makes more sense to me.
So I'll help you. In fact you can just rest on the rock if you like (rocks are good like that) and I don't figure it'll move out from under you at a rapid rate of knots anytime soon ;-)
>And sadly, I'm not hurting as much as I once was.
>There are those who would say that was a good thing.
>I'm not one of them. To me it signifies loss.I'm sorry Dinah.
Sometimes it is best to be a little numb.
It can be a useful coping strategy.
I'm glad you came back. I was getting scaired that you had gone too numb and left us.
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