Posted by headachequeen on November 29, 2004, at 21:13:03 [reposted on November 29, 2004, at 23:34:02 | original URL]
In reply to Re: please be civil » headachequeen, posted by Dr. Bob on November 29, 2004, at 21:05:54
> > just ignore the child until it learns to behave properly --- recognise the proper behaviour and ignore the negative is the way they taught us to react back in child psych 101
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> Sorry, but:
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> > replies to the above post ... should of course themselves be civil.
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> If you want to encourage others not to respond, one civil way to do that is to post something like:
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> > Different points of view are fine, but sometimes discussions just lead to discord and it may be best just not to respond.
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> Thanks,
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> BobLet's try this again...
the message I sent and the one that was posted are not one and the same...
I sent an apology with the added remark that in discussions of the board with a couple of the members the consensus was that this person really didn't want to be helpful, more hurtful and from babblemails I received, had succeeded...
it is sometimes difficult not to defend those who have come to matter to one
kat
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