Posted by MamaB on October 25, 2003, at 19:34:04
In reply to Re: reality therapy, posted by Dr. Bob on October 25, 2003, at 13:56:16
> > Sometimes a little reality therapy is just what is needed... One does not need to be cruel; the facts can be presented in a positive way.
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> It's fine to give others feedback as long as its constructive. Would you consider it a form of "reality therapy" to be blocked from posting? That does happen in some cases...
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I DO hope the above is not intended as a threat!
Yes blocking is a form of confronting honestly.> > Will it be non-"threatning ?" Maybe, maybe not. We all have to learn to, as a popular saying goes --"DEAL WITH IT"
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> Don't people already have enough of it to deal with? IMO, they don't need more of it here.
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> BobOf course. I realize that it is an individual thing. Not every one can tolerate honesty. Which by the way, is probably the word I should have used instead of "reality therapy".
I have a reputation as "a tough old broad", but in fifteen years of practice, I have never had a client terminate because of my being honest.
I shall attempt to be judicious in further posts. I was addressing the over-done "self-esteem" business as an issue in our whole society/culture. I shall attempt to be judicious in further posts. MB
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