Posted by madwand on September 20, 2003, at 9:52:29
In reply to Re: any or all cybersex , posted by kara lynne on September 20, 2003, at 0:48:04
Kara Lynn,
Yes, it appears that when Reaper's note was deleted, any note that specifically responded to him (or her?)is deleted. I notice that Sabina's note from last night (to Reaper) is gone, and one of the Admin messages that came through in my email notifications was gone by the time I clicked on.
I am of two minds of on that. I truly sympathize with Dr. Bob's desire to minimize the discord caused the original note (and its clones elsewhere) and that apparently motivated the decision to remove anything addressed to Reaper.
However, I am a bit disappointed in one way.
I had gotten the impression that a guiding principal of this board was to be supportive rather than negative, even to those who are perhaps being less than supportive themselves. I really thought that my note to Reaper and Sabina's fell into the "supportive" category and perhaps should have survived as an example of the principles we are asked to strive toward here.
I see that Sabina has reproduced one of her notes on a different thread (the one Gal started). I had seen her other one -- I guess this is the one from this morning that appeared as a "ghost" on my email notice.
I thought about that last night with respect to mine, but I do not have a copy of and trying to reproduce it from memory does not quite work for me (i.e. the "moment" is gone).
Essentially, all I said to this person is I don't know what happened in the past between him/her and Dr. Bob and thus cannot judge it either way. However, I hope that they are able to find somewhere what the sought (and were for whatever reason unable to find) here.
poster:madwand
thread:261478
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20030808/msgs/261912.html