Posted by Dreamerz on November 27, 2002, at 5:28:28
In reply to Re: only a PBC » Dinah, posted by wendy b. on November 26, 2002, at 22:11:18
Kindness and sympathy are valued here, by most people. And when Bob SAYS he believes one thing about civility, and then does another, I can't help but think he has some other agenda...
This is making me paranoid..but...
> Leaving these posts is about as cruel (not quite) as the comments he left on the board about Sar's suicide (the ones that denigrated her -
Not forgotten...
Maybe I'm melodramatic...it's hard to see /trust whats going on in these brief written threads..I always have benefit of doubt because who am I to judge when I have never met/or know what other things go on in someones life..so I avoid conflict..try to place everyone on same level..and strive for understanding..maybe I'm dense and not seeing it..
There's enough conflict going on in the world outside..the fact that doc has boundries makes it difficult for us- makes him seem like the iceman..no ones without fault
I'm not defending the doc or dissagreeing with members or even joining in dispute..infact why I'm writing this I have no clue--maybe I'm tired of it all now.
Nothings perfect...but can there can be better ways of fixing things without caps and arrows?The doc can learn hopefully as well as us about how to steer this weird community.it'll be fine with occasional rough seas..as is natural
Hell , I'm off to play some tunes and clean this crappy apartment.
poster:Dreamerz
thread:8314
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