Posted by krazy kat on May 26, 2002, at 22:31:31
In reply to well zo, i never blamed dr. bob, posted by dinah yet again on May 26, 2002, at 20:08:46
>> but if you end up having your friends dislike you.... Many months of friendship ruined in a couple of days. I guess that's how the real world works.
-- maybe i'm just "better" enough not to be able to handle this as well as i did initially, but you have been going back and forth with the concepts i mentioned much more so lately, and i am just worn out.
>> I always hear about it from other people, but i tend to keep my few friends for decades.
-- so do i. but, dinah, saying things, then retracting them, then reworking them, then making blanket statements such as "i'm not good enough" or whatever - that's not going to develop good relationships... it makes the people on the other end feel guilty even when they're right...
good luck. no ill feelings...
- k.
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