Posted by Zo on August 31, 2001, at 17:17:40
In reply to Re: Compassion Does Not Mean Agreement » Zo, posted by akc on August 31, 2001, at 16:42:18
> So I'll gain compassion for Sal when I start seeing it in him towards me --
Unfortunately, compassion isn't a wait-for-the-other-to-go-first matter. By definition.
I'm very sorry you're hurt. I am not a bit in agreement with Sal. What I'm really talking about is the *quality* of our response.
It still makes more sense to detach a bit, don't you think? To notice that Sal has been "off" this week? That he may, then, be in trouble with his meds?
Best,
Zo
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