Posted by SLS on December 28, 2011, at 14:00:51
In reply to How Do You Trust Again Without Losing It So To Spe, posted by Phillipa on December 28, 2011, at 12:43:17
> Seriously not a psych question but trust has been lost over meds, people that promise to do things for you, I bought new bedroom accessories and husband said he would paint the room if I buy the paint. Have a huge sliegh bed no way to move without taking apart and he knows this is the only room in the house I feel safe in and have control over how it looks as he hoards for ebay stuff the rest of the house although I paid for half of it and all furniture not allowed to touch a thing if do the repercussions are not worth it so I turn the other eye hard to do. But I can't afford to hire someone. So how do I trust him to follow through. Meds can't help, therapists can't help no one can but feedback. Thanks I know probably social but more frequent her. Phillipa
Have you made your husband aware of how important that room is to you - that it is your only sanctuary and respite from anxiety? It is important for your mental health and quality of life. Communication is important. Very few of us are effective mind-readers.Good luck.
- ScottSome see things as they are and ask why.
I dream of things that never were and ask why not.- George Bernard Shaw
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