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Posted by verne on March 29, 2006, at 11:20:33
Not sure whether I'm blocked so this is mostly a test post, a peek out of the wreckage, the morning after. I'm so low in the saddle my horse keeps turning around to check whether I'm there.
I feel like I took a dive off the high board without first checking if there's any water in the pool. Thanks to everyone who filled the pool while I was on my way down - the landing is so much easier.
You've all been very supportive. I was really losing it last night. Happily, this morning, I'm only losing my breakfast.
Verne
Posted by wildcard11 on March 29, 2006, at 14:07:00
In reply to Thanks for Putting Water into the Pool, posted by verne on March 29, 2006, at 11:20:33
Posted by milly on March 29, 2006, at 14:35:30
In reply to Thanks for Putting Water into the Pool, posted by verne on March 29, 2006, at 11:20:33
Did you understand any of the reasons why i might object to the porn at my daughters eye level? or didn't you even read it.
Posted by ClearSkies on March 29, 2006, at 15:19:32
In reply to Thanks for Putting Water into the Pool, posted by verne on March 29, 2006, at 11:20:33
> I feel like I took a dive off the high board without first checking if there's any water in the pool. Thanks to everyone who filled the pool while I was on my way down - the landing is so much easier.
>There are great lifeguards at this pool.
I didn't enjoy having to look at my actions from the previous night and feeling so uneasy about them. Who had I upset? What had I said/done/not done? I am so much happier to be able to hold myself responsible for my safety.
No running.ClearSkies
Posted by verne on March 29, 2006, at 18:04:29
In reply to Re: Thanks for Putting Water into the Pool » verne, posted by milly on March 29, 2006, at 14:35:30
I have no problem with you removing porn from around children. Sorry I created such a ruckus.
I'm not even a big fan of porn - especially anything X-rated. I've even been trying to give up my R-rated stuff, not out of prudishness or religion, but simply because I become further socially isolated. It may not be healthy for me but it's not anything I'm ashamed of.
I carry around so much internal shame already, I react strongly to even the hint of any additional shame. Nothing you did. The discussion went off on a tangent and I got defensive.
I'm truly sorry if I distressed you.
Verne
Posted by wildcard11 on March 29, 2006, at 18:41:52
In reply to Re: Thanks for Putting Water into the Pool » milly, posted by verne on March 29, 2006, at 18:04:29
and i think CSkies said it perfectly. ;o)
Posted by Phillipa on March 29, 2006, at 20:06:22
In reply to You're still okay in my book » verne, posted by wildcard11 on March 29, 2006, at 18:41:52
Simple don't post while drunk. Simple for me but maybe not everyone else. Love Phillipa
Posted by milly on March 30, 2006, at 2:08:08
In reply to Re: Thanks for Putting Water into the Pool » milly, posted by verne on March 29, 2006, at 18:04:29
> I have no problem with you removing porn from around children. Sorry I created such a ruckus.
**Thanks, I'm sorry that you had a hard time (excuse the pun!!!)
> I'm not even a big fan of porn - especially anything X-rated. I've even been trying to give up my R-rated stuff, not out of prudishness or religion, but simply because I become further socially isolated. It may not be healthy for me but it's not anything I'm ashamed of.
**Good
> I carry around so much internal shame already, I react strongly to even the hint of any additional shame. Nothing you did. The discussion went off on a tangent and I got defensive.
**Thank goodness for grace hey!
> I'm truly sorry if I distressed you.
** i don't do conflict well it all gets mixed up in my head that EVERYTHING is my fault and I end up feeling responsible for everybodies hurt, and 'feeling' the hurt from both sides so yes it does end up really distressing for me. I end up screaming 'stop it!' but that is my problem and I guess I'll learn to distance myself oneday.
> Verne
**friends?
milly
>
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