Psycho-Babble Social Thread 240554

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i am back...

Posted by justyourlaugh on July 10, 2003, at 10:21:55

i made it home safe and sound...
the cops had to talk to each child to make sure i didnt corrupt or harm them..
i am the town idiot now..
i decreased the value of the homes in my neighbourhood by having police cars in my driveway for days..
just got back from a doctors appointment...
i still feel irrational...alone..desperate..
more thyroid medication:(
cleared out our bank account and now have nothing left for the summer...
oh the guilt...c cant understand why i did it..nor can i ...
i just want to go away.
j

 

Re: i am back... » justyourlaugh

Posted by Dinah on July 10, 2003, at 10:46:33

In reply to i am back..., posted by justyourlaugh on July 10, 2003, at 10:21:55

I'm sorry you've had such a rough time JYL. I'll be sending warm thoughts your way.

 

Re: i am back...

Posted by tina on July 10, 2003, at 11:37:31

In reply to Re: i am back... » justyourlaugh, posted by Dinah on July 10, 2003, at 10:46:33

I'm so glad you're safe. YOu felt desperate and needed to get away. I totally understand the impulse shannon. I'm just glad you're ok.
thanks for checking in.
take care
lv
tina

 

JYL, sweetie...

Posted by whiterabbit on July 10, 2003, at 13:34:50

In reply to i am back..., posted by justyourlaugh on July 10, 2003, at 10:21:55

Don't worry about the cops. Don't worry about the neighbors. I have the right to say that cause I've been through the same mess more than once...police, paramedics, flashing lights, neighbors on their porches, all that stuff that makes you just want to melt into the floor like the wet Wicked Witch of the West (try to say that fast three times...)

Don't matter, the important thing is that they didn't take your kids, thank God for that. I know it won't make you feel any better right now but I can tell you, surviving these awful times WILL make you stronger, it makes the little stuff that some people freak over just...well, little. I'm not talking about anyone here on PB, having your mind turn against you - using all its powers for evil instead of good - that's serious, serious business.

I'm talking about the foolishness you see on TV -
neighbors at war over a tree that drops limbs on the other guy's lawn, people who get SO WORKED UP over stupid stuff.

You'll see, JYL, once you've had time to recover,
your focus does shift, you have new perspective over what's important and what's not - and the bad times you endured become the source of your strength.

But it takes awhile to reach that point, you need some time to heal and distance yourself from the painful event. Try to be especially good to yourself for now, if you can't do it for you than do it for us...
Gracie

 

PS. And do it for your kids, they need you (nm)

Posted by whiterabbit on July 10, 2003, at 13:36:07

In reply to i am back..., posted by justyourlaugh on July 10, 2003, at 10:21:55

 

Re: i am back... » justyourlaugh

Posted by fallsfall on July 10, 2003, at 16:46:24

In reply to i am back..., posted by justyourlaugh on July 10, 2003, at 10:21:55

I'm so glad you are back. Take some deep breaths.

Maybe blow some bubbles with your kids (my 20 year old blows bubbles with me). They float peacefully and then they *pop* (or the kids get them), but you can blow more... and more... and more...

Let us know how it goes.

 

welcome back jyl (nm)

Posted by yesac on July 10, 2003, at 17:08:07

In reply to Re: i am back... » justyourlaugh, posted by fallsfall on July 10, 2003, at 16:46:24

 

Glad you're back JYL! (nm)

Posted by Janejj on July 10, 2003, at 23:26:01

In reply to welcome back jyl (nm), posted by yesac on July 10, 2003, at 17:08:07

 

re: you're back... » justyourlaugh

Posted by lil' jimi on July 11, 2003, at 1:26:36

In reply to i am back..., posted by justyourlaugh on July 10, 2003, at 10:21:55

jyl,

please take sweet sweet care there, mom ... ... pulling for you ... ... praying...

... and laughing?
... ... soon

wayne was telling me the direct rays of the sun onto the flesh helps .. ... not too over do it tho ... ... (he's in fl ... and the lex tread)

peace,
~ ydj

 

Re: i am back... » justyourlaugh

Posted by noa on July 11, 2003, at 19:59:59

In reply to i am back..., posted by justyourlaugh on July 10, 2003, at 10:21:55

Good to see you, JYL. Take care of yourself. One day at a time. Heck, one minute at a time! Keep writing to us.


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