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Posted by lynn970 on October 2, 2005, at 20:42:11
In reply to Tamar and Daisy, posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 20:35:40
Wow, you should write a novel. That is good stuff. I like the kiss where he holds your face on the porch on a rainy night. wow. lol
Posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 20:47:32
In reply to Re: Tamar and Daisy, posted by lynn970 on October 2, 2005, at 20:42:11
> Wow, you should write a novel. That is good stuff. I like the kiss where he holds your face on the porch on a rainy night. wow. lol
>How do you know I made it up? LOL Maybe it really happened and I am just telling ya all! LOL :) thanks lynn! :)
Posted by Tamar on October 2, 2005, at 20:58:50
In reply to Tamar and Daisy, posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 20:35:40
> >>
> > I honestly can't imagine the man reading your posts and not liking it. Of course, he'd have to do the professional talk... He'd probably ask you why you care whether he likes it! D*mn therapist-speak! I'm with Daisy: I think you should ask if he's ever had a client kiss him – or ask if he’s ever thought about kissing you!
> >
> Hey, no fair ganging up on me! LOL Do you really think he would tell me the truth? Remember he said he was a good liar! LOL
>It’s funny… I realised after I posted that reply that I was doing the thing my friends sometimes do to me… Sometimes my friends seem to feel a bit anxious when I make playful remarks about my sexual interest in my ex-therapist. It’s as if they don’t want to encourage me too much in case I’ll suddenly think it’s OK to tear his clothes off and f*ck him until he can’t say, “Freudian slip.” And in fact I just want to play with the idea; I’m never actually going to reach over and unbutton his shirt. But somehow playing appears dangerous… I’m sorry for getting sucked into that dynamic.
Yeah, don’t ask him if he’s ever thought about kissing you. Instead, say you *know* he’s thought about kissing you, and wait for him to lean slowly forward, taking your face in his hands, and brushing your lips gently with his, as the thunder crashes outside. You barely notice the sound of the rain pounding on the roof of the building, because his tongue is searching for yours, his left hand cradles the back of your head, grasping your hair, and his right hand is moving slowly – very slowly – down your back…
Posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 21:04:19
In reply to Re: Tamar and Daisy » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 2, 2005, at 20:58:50
Posted by 10derHeart on October 2, 2005, at 21:09:51
In reply to Re: Tamar and Daisy » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 2, 2005, at 20:58:50
Posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 21:11:32
In reply to Da*n, Tamar...it's awfully warm in here...whew! (nm) » Tamar, posted by 10derHeart on October 2, 2005, at 21:09:51
Posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 21:20:31
In reply to I think I need a cold shower! :) OR MY T!!!! (nm), posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 21:11:32
Posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 21:27:35
In reply to I bet everyone thinks I am nuts! LOL (nm), posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 21:20:31
Have a good night everyone! I pray that I don't run into my T tomorrow morning or I will die with embarrestment and he will look at me like what is her problem? LOL
Posted by Tamar on October 2, 2005, at 21:36:16
In reply to Thanks for cheering me up and all the fun!!, posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 21:27:35
> Have a good night everyone! I pray that I don't run into my T tomorrow morning or I will die with embarrestment and he will look at me like what is her problem? LOL
Now *that's* when you'll have to know where your hands are...
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 9:57:30
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :), posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 17:27:18
OMGosh, you are so freaking bad, I thought I was going to die! LOL You are too funny, but I know you want to.
fw
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:00:12
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :), posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 18:14:34
and then you both started breathing quickly and your hearts were beating rapidly, and you felt a bit faint, and you felt tingling in your.....extremities, and he asked you if you felt like you needed to lie down, and you said, "yes, yes, I need to lie down!...."
LOL
fw
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:09:02
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » daisym, posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 19:16:00
> I love kissing, soft gentle lips, it is a prelude of what is to come, no pun intended! LOL
>
Me too, hope this doesn't trigger anyone, but my husband and I have a very deep and connected relationship. It's taken us years to get there considering that I was abused for years and years. I never thought I'd ever let anyone touch me, but he's so gentle with me. He loves me so much, he's so incredibly caring, and would never do anything to hurt me. He's always waited for me to be ready, even when it's taken days, weeks, months, even more than a year!And now it's so incrediby special when we get together and kiss and our lips meet so softly, and the passion builds, maybe some exchange of whispered words, maybe a gaze, just the right touching, bodies getting electrifieds with sexual tension.....nothing like it. Of course it has to be the right person, the right time, etc....
And then there's warm snugglies, that's different. A safe warm haven of comfort and closeness, and he gives me that too, which I love.
fw
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:22:00
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) ***trigger***, posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:09:02
I wish I could have what you have in your marraige FW. I am so jeolous! Maybe it is what I am missing in my life that makes me feel like there is a huge bleeding hole in my heart. :(
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:23:25
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » happyflower, posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 9:57:30
> OMGosh, you are so freaking bad, I thought I was going to die! LOL You are too funny, but I know you want to.
>
> fwWe missed you last night during our crazy time, this is just your thing to talk about! LOL How do you know that I want to? LOL Am I that transparent? LOL :)
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:27:13
In reply to Re: OH, No I am going to just die! » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 2, 2005, at 20:31:15
I didn't see him at the gym, and he says he believes in exercise. Well shouldn't he follow his own advice? Doesn't he know he is suppose to be there for my sceanery? LOL What else do I have to look at? LOL
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:28:41
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » fairywings, posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:23:25
>> Am I that transparent? LOL :)
YUP! ; )
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:31:02
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) ***trigger*** » fairywings, posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:22:00
> I wish I could have what you have in your marraige FW. I am so jeolous! Maybe it is what I am missing in my life that makes me feel like there is a huge bleeding hole in my heart. :(
I'm so so sorry, I didn't mean to make you feel bad. i know my husband is one in a million, and I worry every day that one of these days he'll get sick of me and leave. once he fell in love with me, 20 years ago, i started to feel that way, and it's never stopped worrying me! i hope that your heart will be filled with joy and happiness really soon!fw
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:36:27
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) ***trigger***, posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:31:02
You never make me feel bad Jazzy. I thought I had that once with my DH, but he just doesn't want me anymore. Some times marriage just sucks and I hate it the way it makes me feel like an unwanted child. When will life give me a fricken break and let me be happy totally? Now I am at peace with my past, but now my present just sucks. Sorry to be wineing. I just want someone to fill my heart . I miss being wanted.
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 11:17:53
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) ***trigger*** » fairywings, posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:36:27
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 12:44:25
In reply to Re: I'm so sorry! ; ( (nm) » happyflower, posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 11:17:53
Posted by terrics on October 4, 2005, at 20:33:24
In reply to I kissed my T!!! :), posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 17:20:02
Good way to start a conversation on this board. I bet alot of us really wish we could kiss our Ts. LOL terrics
Posted by happyflower on October 4, 2005, at 21:55:30
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » happyflower, posted by terrics on October 4, 2005, at 20:33:24
> Good way to start a conversation on this board. I bet alot of us really wish we could kiss our Ts. LOL terrics
>Yeah, I thought it would get everyone attention, I guess I am needing attention like a neglected 2 yr. old. But I guess I am letting my joking get too carried away and I have seem to have offended some people by my silliness. Oh, well.
Tell us more, would you like to kiss your T? LOL
Posted by terrics on October 5, 2005, at 10:39:04
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » terrics, posted by happyflower on October 4, 2005, at 21:55:30
Hi again, I would love to kiss my T. She would die. I think that wuold be funny too. I am sure that would be the end of therapy. terrics
Posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 11:21:35
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » happyflower, posted by terrics on October 5, 2005, at 10:39:04
> Hi again, I would love to kiss my T. She would die. I think that wuold be funny too. I am sure that would be the end of therapy. terrics
Yup, a very quick termination! LOL what a fun way to end therapy! LOL :) My T has a beard so I wonder if it tickles. Never kissed a man with facial hair.
Posted by greyskyeyes on October 5, 2005, at 11:57:43
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » terrics, posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 11:21:35
Hi, pardon me but I gotta chime in here!
>>> I would love to kiss my T. She would die. I am sure that would be the end of therapy.
Kissing my T would be *way* too weird... not just the same-sex thing, either. Maybe b/c she's my mother's age and I'm not exactly kissy with my mom. Even a hug would be weird. Now, my husband's (former) T, that's a different story... I would definitely have loved to kiss him! (and believe me, we did that plenty in my fantasies!! LOL) I did hug him at our final couples session, which was nice. ~sigh~
>>> My T has a beard so I wonder if it tickles. Never kissed a man with facial hair.
Oh yeah it tickles! But they look so nice on men. Ya gotta watch out for the mustaches though, especially after they've drunk something!! Ick.
~ grey
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