Posted by Tamar on October 2, 2005, at 20:58:50
In reply to Tamar and Daisy, posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 20:35:40
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> > I honestly can't imagine the man reading your posts and not liking it. Of course, he'd have to do the professional talk... He'd probably ask you why you care whether he likes it! D*mn therapist-speak! I'm with Daisy: I think you should ask if he's ever had a client kiss him – or ask if he’s ever thought about kissing you!
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> Hey, no fair ganging up on me! LOL Do you really think he would tell me the truth? Remember he said he was a good liar! LOL
>It’s funny… I realised after I posted that reply that I was doing the thing my friends sometimes do to me… Sometimes my friends seem to feel a bit anxious when I make playful remarks about my sexual interest in my ex-therapist. It’s as if they don’t want to encourage me too much in case I’ll suddenly think it’s OK to tear his clothes off and f*ck him until he can’t say, “Freudian slip.” And in fact I just want to play with the idea; I’m never actually going to reach over and unbutton his shirt. But somehow playing appears dangerous… I’m sorry for getting sucked into that dynamic.
Yeah, don’t ask him if he’s ever thought about kissing you. Instead, say you *know* he’s thought about kissing you, and wait for him to lean slowly forward, taking your face in his hands, and brushing your lips gently with his, as the thunder crashes outside. You barely notice the sound of the rain pounding on the roof of the building, because his tongue is searching for yours, his left hand cradles the back of your head, grasping your hair, and his right hand is moving slowly – very slowly – down your back…
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