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Posted by shar on July 21, 2005, at 1:16:05
Hi, Gracie,
You 'passed away' on July 27, 2003, and I received my last email from you on July 21, 2003. You were in the midst of a terrible divorce, and I still wonder if you had unasked for "help" in your passing. But, probably, I will never know. I do know your spouse had ties to the police in the area.Your last email did not sound suicidal AT ALL. You were ticked off about the affair, not wanting to give up the house (that you bought), and trying to keep everything 'sane' for your son.
I've located your mom, and emailed her. No response. Is it an open and shut case, or people are too afraid to talk? Well, that may be my paranoia, but your last email to me talked about violence.
Anyhow, I still think of you, miss you, feel "unclosed" about it all. Found your obit in the paper. Can't help but wonder....oh, well.
What a friend you were! So creative, part of Lumptonia, artistic, and so loving toward people...unless they were REALLY inappropriate.
So, I am remembering you here. I remember you every day. I miss you terribly.
xoxoxoxoxo
Shar
Posted by gardenergirl on July 22, 2005, at 11:57:33
In reply to To Gracie..., posted by shar on July 21, 2005, at 1:16:05
Shar,
Thanks for posting this. I never knew her, but I can hear through your words how she was loved and was special.gg
Posted by Deneb on July 22, 2005, at 22:27:09
In reply to Re: To Gracie... » shar, posted by gardenergirl on July 22, 2005, at 11:57:33
I wasn't here to get to know Gracie either, but I've read some of her posts and I know part of her lives on here and within the minds of hundreds and maybe thousands.
She will be remembered.
jenny
Posted by shar on July 25, 2005, at 0:36:50
In reply to Re: To Gracie... » gardenergirl, posted by Deneb on July 22, 2005, at 22:27:09
I'm so happy that Gracie can be in the conscious thoughts of others. I don't know whether or not it makes a difference that she was one of 'us' but she passed too soon.
I miss her so. She was hilariously funny, so creative (artistic), she described herself as "I'll be the one with the wild red hair smoking a cigarette." As I recall (however, that could be a Sr. moment).
She said (in an email to me) she was planning a trip to Texas where we might be able to meet up. And, then, she was dead. Suddenly.
Oh, well. I just miss her so dearly. I guess on the 27th my partner and I, who both knew her (online) will remember her with a ritual. And, anyone who prays, please remember her in a positive way (ie, not being in Hell, but rather in a better place).
Thanks for caring.
xoxoxoxo
Shar
Posted by shar on July 28, 2005, at 0:17:47
In reply to Thanks so much, posted by shar on July 25, 2005, at 0:36:50
Just remembering you one last time, Gracie. Your artistic talent, sense of humor, the loss of your brother, hard family times, the last email, and, of course, Lumptonia.
It is now 10 minutes after your death in 2003.
I miss you so much. I did get to find out your given name in your obituary, which amazed me. Wow, what a way to name a child!
All of that notwithstanding, kudos to you for all you did with your life, your marriage, your son.
You are in my heart, and I would NEVER forget another Lump. And, Scruffles is there if you need her.
Very much love, you Sweetie Pie Heart who was supposed to have a fun time with me and others getting our toenails painted purple! You are not forgotten.
Love you,
Shar
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