Posted by shar on July 21, 2005, at 1:16:05
Hi, Gracie,
You 'passed away' on July 27, 2003, and I received my last email from you on July 21, 2003. You were in the midst of a terrible divorce, and I still wonder if you had unasked for "help" in your passing. But, probably, I will never know. I do know your spouse had ties to the police in the area.Your last email did not sound suicidal AT ALL. You were ticked off about the affair, not wanting to give up the house (that you bought), and trying to keep everything 'sane' for your son.
I've located your mom, and emailed her. No response. Is it an open and shut case, or people are too afraid to talk? Well, that may be my paranoia, but your last email to me talked about violence.
Anyhow, I still think of you, miss you, feel "unclosed" about it all. Found your obit in the paper. Can't help but wonder....oh, well.
What a friend you were! So creative, part of Lumptonia, artistic, and so loving toward people...unless they were REALLY inappropriate.
So, I am remembering you here. I remember you every day. I miss you terribly.
xoxoxoxoxo
Shar
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