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Posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 12:48:58
Well I was e-mailed and told I'm not wanted here and the only reason Dr Bob hasn't banned me is because this is all I have. Is this true. Have I been named Queen Phillipa. And very much hated? If so I have permission to go whereever I wish by my pdoc. Thanks Phillipa
Posted by Dinah on February 14, 2010, at 13:17:44
In reply to Told Not Wanted, posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 12:48:58
Emailed or babblemailed? If it was babblemail, forward it to Dr. Bob.
Phillipa, you know it isn't true. Everyone is welcomed on Babble, and Dr. Bob doesn't block or not block people on a basis other than babble guidelines.
That person was not speaking for all of Babble. How could they? Only Dr. Bob has even the smallest shot at that, and even he can only speak for the administration and ownership of Babble.
For me, I'm glad you're here and wouldn't wish you to leave.
Posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 13:27:20
In reply to Re: Told Not Wanted » Phillipa, posted by Dinah on February 14, 2010, at 13:17:44
Dinah unfortunatly it was an e-mail which I chose to ignore as get them from same person daily. I should have long ago stopped answering them. My mistake. But constantly being told your're the reason others left babble really hurts. And I say that cause I do get tired of hiding my true feelings. I've done this for my whole life to protect others. If I were to say to them or anyone they hurt me they would just ignore me or misunderstand and start a fight. It's complicated. I do love babble it's true but not for me to try in my way to help others. I do miss nursing and this kind of fills the need. A form of volunteering? Or is that not right? I admit I'm anxious out in the world and this allows me at times to feel at least I've maybe helped another. Anyway thanks your comment means a lot to me. Love Phillipa
Posted by 10derHeart on February 14, 2010, at 13:39:53
In reply to Re: Told Not Wanted » Dinah, posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 13:27:20
I agree with Dinah. You're fine here. More than fine.
People say a lot of things that come from places deep in them and what comes out might be *about* you, but yet it is not really **about** you, if that makes sense.
Why don't you block the email address of that person? Why read such things?
Posted by janejane on February 14, 2010, at 16:34:57
In reply to Told Not Wanted, posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 12:48:58
I've told you this before, Phillipa, and I'll say it again. I really do think of you as the Ambassador of Babble. You're always there to welcome people and be supportive. You are by far one of the most valuable members here and it wouldn't be the same without you. Please don't let the spiteful words of one person make you doubt your importance here. I know you've got a place in everyone's hearts. Babble loves you.
Posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 19:32:18
In reply to Re: Told Not Wanted » Phillipa, posted by janejane on February 14, 2010, at 16:34:57
Thank you all and blocking sounds like a good idea. Love Phillipa
Posted by hyperfocus on February 15, 2010, at 20:50:22
In reply to Told Not Wanted, posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 12:48:58
I want you around Phillipa, both for the concern and support you've given me, and for that which you give to others every day. It's important not to let the negativity that one person might direct towards you override the positivity that exists inside you.
Posted by Phillipa on February 15, 2010, at 21:36:21
In reply to Re: Told Not Wanted » Phillipa, posted by hyperfocus on February 15, 2010, at 20:50:22
Thanks that means a lot and is much appreciated Love Phillipa
Posted by olivepit on February 16, 2010, at 0:16:07
In reply to Told Not Wanted, posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 12:48:58
I think you are lovely Phillipa and I would ignore (as hard as it is) that person who sounds to be very full of negativity. I would forward those emails to Dr Bob, even if they arent babble mails.
Posted by Phillipa on February 16, 2010, at 0:27:15
In reply to Re: Told Not Wanted » Phillipa, posted by olivepit on February 16, 2010, at 0:16:07
Hi Olivepit thanks kindly for your supportive post. Love Phillipa
Posted by 64bowtie on February 17, 2010, at 1:26:16
In reply to Re: Told Not Wanted » Phillipa, posted by 10derHeart on February 14, 2010, at 13:39:53
........ who said, "I agree with (((Dinah))). You're fine here. More than fine."
Take it to the bank!!! We miss you when your not here...... Within that fact, there is no room for not wanting you here... Turn over the e-mails to Dr. Bob.... And, stick around... There is more to be revealed... We look forward to your joy...
Rod
Posted by 64bowtie on February 17, 2010, at 1:31:59
In reply to Re: Told Not Wanted » Phillipa, posted by 10derHeart on February 14, 2010, at 13:39:53
Posted by Phillipa on February 17, 2010, at 12:22:12
In reply to » Phillipa » I agree with 10derHeart, posted by 64bowtie on February 17, 2010, at 1:26:16
Rod no I can't turn over the e-mails that would be a violation of privacy. Someone said just ignore them. So I will. Why turn them over to Dr. Bob he's busy enough and then the person's server would be involved. I like you and your name so please don't change it. Your're sweet Rod where you been? Love Phillipa
Posted by 64Bowtie on February 22, 2010, at 3:11:26
In reply to Re: » 64bowtie, posted by Phillipa on February 17, 2010, at 12:22:12
» Phillipa »
Remember, I only suggest, and never ever judge behavior...
Rod
PS: If motives appear to drift over toward a boundary or "Taboo", I might relate consequences as I have seen them...
Posted by 64Bowtie on February 22, 2010, at 3:48:16
In reply to Re: » 64bowtie, posted by Phillipa on February 17, 2010, at 12:22:12
» Phillipa »
Been busy following a dream for the past 3 years of making money developing some land into 8 homesites as part of a team... All went south when the economy tanked... If it sounds bad, trust me, it was worse than it even sounds... I saw my friend who got me involved go from a $million$ in value to nothing in the same 3 years...
I was a sweat-equity invester, also paid for services rendered up till a year ago... The corporation reorganised and I was supposed to get $12,000 unpaid compensation from reorganisation, but I'll never see a penny... For the past 3 years, I've been used and abused... Consensus is that "NO ONE CARES!"... It was a part time venture for me, so who am I to gripe, really???
Anytime I feel "ungrounded", I count my fingers and toes... So far, each time, the total is still 20... And, next time, I'll have a better grip on what to do and not to do, along with who to trust and who not to trust...
Basically I have been living the scenario that if it sounds toooo good to be true, then it probably isn't (true)...
Rod
Posted by Phillipa on February 22, 2010, at 20:21:25
In reply to Re: Also,, posted by 64Bowtie on February 22, 2010, at 3:48:16
Rod I'm sorry for both you and your friend. You remain upbeat so your're doing something right for sure. Want to share your secret? Phillipa
Posted by adelaide curtis on February 24, 2010, at 23:32:32
In reply to Told Not Wanted, posted by Phillipa on February 14, 2010, at 12:48:58
no.. it is not true..
I understand how much 1 voice can spoil and knock ones self worth off track.. do not let this define your time here..
Posted by Phillipa on February 24, 2010, at 23:59:14
In reply to Re: Told Not Wanted, posted by adelaide curtis on February 24, 2010, at 23:32:32
Seriously thanks. Love Phillipa
Posted by 64Bowtie on March 5, 2010, at 3:14:20
In reply to Re: Also, » 64Bowtie, posted by Phillipa on February 22, 2010, at 20:21:25
» Phillipa », thank you for asking.....
Over the last 20 plus years of torturous self torment followed by healing, "out-of-body" visualisations have taught me to seek goals that improve my quality of life... Inevitably I am seeking a new target "self"; still me, just better...
Please be patient if this sounds toooo glib or toooo "psycho-babbly"... I've been at it so long I sometimes lack words to discribe my passage into this realm...
Rod
P.S. Like it or not, I am my own success story...
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