Psycho-Babble 2000 Thread 705

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Deb

Posted by Rach on October 14, 2002, at 9:05:43

How are you doing? I hope that none of your loved ones were in Bali.

Rachael

 

Re: Deb...Rach

Posted by Deb R on October 15, 2002, at 7:49:54

In reply to Deb, posted by Rach on October 14, 2002, at 9:05:43

Hey Rach,

Saw your message at ASH so have replied there already - thankyou so much for your posts my dear, its really good to see you around again.

Love,
Deb.

 

Re: Deb...Rach

Posted by Rach on October 16, 2002, at 19:44:01

In reply to Re: Deb...Rach, posted by Deb R on October 15, 2002, at 7:49:54

I've returned to ASH so I can leave this board again. The replies under my Bali post on social really have proved to me that some people are a narrow minded bigots with no concern for anyone else and I am done offering my help here.

 

Re: please be civil » Rach

Posted by Dr. Bob on October 16, 2002, at 23:07:25

In reply to Re: Deb...Rach, posted by Rach on October 16, 2002, at 19:44:01

> I've returned to ASH so I can leave this board again. The replies under my Bali post on social really have proved to me that some people are a narrow minded bigots with no concern for anyone else and I am done offering my help here.

You're welcome to return, of course, but if you do, please be civil, OK? Best wishes,

Bob

 

Sorry Rach, what narrow minded bigots????? (nm)

Posted by Phil on October 17, 2002, at 19:18:18

In reply to Re: Deb...Rach, posted by Rach on October 16, 2002, at 19:44:01

 

Re: Deb...Rach

Posted by Deb R on October 18, 2002, at 9:28:28

In reply to Re: Deb...Rach, posted by Rach on October 16, 2002, at 19:44:01

Hey Rach,

Please don't go, it is nice to see your name amongst the posters here again. I am hoping you will reconsider with time. Meanwhile I will see you at ASH - I wont be online for a week or so, but will catch up with you then.

Your mate from the west,
Deb.

 

Rach--leaving or staying

Posted by shar on October 18, 2002, at 9:54:11

In reply to Re: Deb...Rach, posted by Deb R on October 18, 2002, at 9:28:28

Something someone said must have really stung hard to make you want to leave. It has been very nice to have you here again, but if you need to go, well, I will miss you. I still remember from a time long ago your posts that touched me deeply.

Any chance you could let that thread float away, and consider it part of how life is when interacting with people from diverse backgrounds, who don't know you or you them? It is clear that your post was meant to convey concern about our collective future, a view I also have, and even if it has been happening elsewhere in the US and the world, it is still shocking when something about it hits close to home or strikes a chord with you personally.

Well, it'll be a treat for us if you stay, and we will understand if you want to take a break. Take care.

Shar

 

I feel really embarassed...

Posted by Rach on October 19, 2002, at 3:58:33

In reply to Rach--leaving or staying, posted by shar on October 18, 2002, at 9:54:11

Iso apologised, which made me go back and read all those posts.

I think I must have taken it all out of context and let my emotions read into the posts, because now I can't really see what it was that caused me to fly off the handle.

So of course I will stay, and I'll try not to colour outside the lines of what other people post.

I'm very very sorry to anyone I have offended.

 

Re: I feel really embarassed... » Rach

Posted by judy1 on October 19, 2002, at 23:28:42

In reply to I feel really embarassed..., posted by Rach on October 19, 2002, at 3:58:33

I really don't think you need to apologize, no one can fault you for being sensitive. I'm glad you decided to give things another chance. take care, judy

 

Re: I feel really embarassed...

Posted by shar on October 20, 2002, at 4:15:30

In reply to Re: I feel really embarassed... » Rach, posted by judy1 on October 19, 2002, at 23:28:42

Rach,
Don't feel that way!! (as if we haven't all heard THAT enough in our lives...) But, really, Don't feel that way!!
8-)

It is a sign of your own maturity and fairness that you went back and reread the posts, and I like it, too, because you did not automatically assume you were in the wrong but reviewed what was there and made a thoughtful response about it all.

I'm glad it ended up with you staying.

Shar


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