Posted by alexandra_k on July 23, 2018, at 4:43:20
In reply to Re: Are you okay scott?, posted by Lamdage22 on July 20, 2018, at 9:00:35
> I dont want to argue with you. I think i would only make you mad at me and it wouldnt help neither you nor me.
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> I just ask myself: What is the difference between being outright lazy and being lazy because of depression? Is there a difference?Hey Lamdage,
I really appreciate your input, here. You knew Scott, much better than me, and your comments to that effect helped me see that I needed to read back, some, to try and understand what was going on for him...
And I have enjoyed reading your posts about how things are for you with respect to supportive communities... And features of them, and hwo they might work / and or come to work better.
Different people are in different places, and different people have different things to offer...
What I always liked so very much about Babble was how there were people with different perspectives... And then differnet people would post differnt things... ANd then you got to choose for yourself what to resonate with and what to bounce from. And all of that was invalusable when it came to self-defining...
And it was genuinely better than having a single clinician (in some respects -- but not all) for providing a variety of options for you to choose your own adventure in what it is to go on...
It sounds to me like you have some good parental support. Some good parental financial support... And they are trying to help you... And you are trying to help you, too, when it comes to you finding a living situation that is appropriately balanced between support for you and independence for you. And that is cool. Everyone has their own journeys and they are all cool in the sense that everyone really rather legitimately has their own journeys...
But people will resonate more or less depending on whether there is conflicting or complimentary things going on for them in their lives...
I am glad you are here :-)
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