Posted by rjlockhart37 on December 6, 2014, at 0:56:55
In reply to Re: i did it again....., posted by rjlockhart37 on December 4, 2014, at 21:39:09
talked and bought h something at the bookstore on campus, it's pretty much staying where it is....i didnt get anymore deeper than what i've been doing , she left right after class....so obviously i think the intrest in whatever has ran out.....i was going to just ask to go to dinner and coffee and maybe see a movie, it didnt work, and monday is not gonna work either because that's the going away day, and she moves......
really if think about it, she's far away, i have a hunch she will not return phone calls, and will meet someone new.......
and that's a lesson to me to make good friendships as a priority.....instead of faking it with a face, and then not really intrested in people......i got hurt alot in the past so that's why i backed off and started faking face
but really....what i feel, she likes me for my face appearnce, not really my personality.....and everry day i go, i'm nervious about saying the wrong thing, or not saying anything at all besides saying hi, how are you doing, and end it at that.....and that's exactly what happened.....never focus on a nightmare happening, always focus on something good that is gonna happen, 1 way to think......im gonna screw this up, i can't do this, im scared, something bad is gonna happen, and usally that is what happens because the mind is focused on the energy.....and then another way, what can get accomplished and how good am i going to feel today... and make myself feel better, im going to ask her out to dinner and im going to learn how to talk smooth and charming.....and it's gonna work, biorythams....
not really intrested....that's the bottom line...if i was then i would of desperated to hang out
and stop feeling guilty for not attempting to ask out.....
.....
im not feeling good.....
1800 PATTY CAKE....
ring riing
ring ring
ughh god patty pick up the phone
ringgggg
:yes....
:patty! it's me
:oh no.....
:patty i got to talk you about somethin....
:go...
:there's a girl in my class that liked me but now ignores me and i feel guilty
:well does she make you feel guilty?
:yes....walking away and and rolling her eyes
:well roll your eyes back and look up like you annoyed to see her
:that's not very nice patty...
:well a mean look in the mirror only see's the same mean look back
:what's that mean patty?
:if she makes you feel guilty, then make her feel guilty.....just like lookin in a mirror
:patty that is not how a relationship works, it can be worked out even with ugly looks and additude
:well is this chick giving you any indication that she is gonna take it farther, even after you say your last "goodbye" speech to her....
:i don't know patty......this all makes me so frustrated because the past relationships that where similar
:why don't you just kiss her
:she'd slap me ... and never talk to me again
:give her a hug
:i do but it's only a social hug
:say she's pretty
:already do that alot.....flattery has no substance with someone who doesnt like you
:how you know she doesnt like you?
:she walks away now, rolls her eyes, and talk in disintrested tone
:well, this is a game that is almost over....you either press the right button on the nintendo video game or it's over.....
:which button do i press???
:her number
:oh patty your such a flirt
:im only a student of observation
:but what happens if the botton slips and and the sega controller falls out of hands?
:that means she got in her car, and left....
:what does this mean after i lost this game?
:if you think this is a game you shouldnt be in true relationships fakey fake face
:stop that patty, we don't talk this around here...
:so.....im guessing your going to sit and think of 10000 ways to save thev relationship and forget it all by tommorow
:maybe so patty.....
:well....does she like to shop?
:yea....i think so....
:we'll ... usally if guy shops with a girl and tries on clothes is gay, but why don't ask her out to the mall and move your directions over how the relatinship can build.....and really not be intrested in shopping at all.....
:i don't like to shop....
:i didnt ask you if you like to shop....i said take her to the mall and start getting ideas connecting a better relationship
:ok....we'll first patty....she is not going to go with me and all this is bunch of intellectual b*llsh*t that im going to forget about by tommorow....
:there's always the cheezeburger option and take her to burger king
:shut up patty, this is material wise, not food
:well, rj......why don't awnser your own questions, and observation of social hints
:i quit patty....
:quitting shows you don't care about certain things.....and will show more of a pattern of it happening in the future....
:yes patty....your the grandmaster and know everyhting
:yes i do.....
:last words?
:nuuuuummmmmmmbbbbbbeeeeerrrrr which you hold you hand and talk into
:a phone?
:call her, and if she get's off the phone in less than 5 min than there's another statistical calucation ... not intrested....
:ok patty....
:now by date is waiting on me at pizza parlor....romantic drive into the parking lot....
:have fun patty....
clickguess i should call her! lol
r
not a scholar but understand distress.....
"unheard pain, is the told through good company"
poster:rjlockhart37
thread:1073930
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