Posted by 10derHeart on May 27, 2009, at 15:46:38
In reply to Re: I am going on dates tomorrow (weds), posted by Deneb on May 27, 2009, at 14:16:15
Deneb, I am glad you feel confident and happy enough to do this. Really, I do.
But **please** be MORE careful. Not utterly paranoid, but close to it. Please.
Your health and safety is paramount, right? You have plenty of time for car rides later. There are tons of things to be done in public.
I worry. Don't mean to scare you, but being street-wise and savvy, in a preemptive kind of way, is your best defense against any possible nastiness some evil guy may be contemplating.
Caution is good. Don't worry about offending, either - a decent, smart man will applaud your common sense for NOT trusting right away. He will recognize healthy boundaries. You don't really want to waste your time with someone who'd feel insulted by you not wanting to be alone with him - a perfect stranger, you know?
Enjoy, though :-)
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