Posted by Deneb on May 24, 2009, at 1:17:34
In reply to Statistics are wrong, posted by Deneb on May 23, 2009, at 23:04:34
I wondered if my Mom was right about Chinese people thinking sex isn't for pleasure, is evil, etc.
I learned traditional Chinese culture is very conservative.
When my Mom grew up, she learned that women were not supposed to enjoy sex. Sex was only for married couples and it was not OK to talk about sex ever.
That is kind of sad, but I don't think I will be changing my Mom's views anytime soon.
I kind of feel that sex should be for committed couples too, but my Mom thinks women shouldn't even masturbate. What is wrong with that? Is it immoral? Clearly it is not about religion since my parents don't have a religion.
I am just glad I didn't grow up with shame about sex. I wonder how I escaped that?
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