Posted by dreamboat_annie on December 5, 2006, at 20:06:34
In reply to Upset, need hugs, posted by TexasChic on December 5, 2006, at 19:54:37
It doesn't matter why, all that matters is that you are upset and need some comfort - ((Texaxchic)). You are not a total loser or a freak. What is normal anyway? I think it is just some abstract concept that we toss around so that we can judge others and use as an excuse to point fingers. As for having it all together, I bet if you asked a bunch of people to swear on a bible that they had it all together, most, if not all, would be hard pressed to do so. We are a work in progress - all of us. We all have our quirks and idiocyncracies and our fears and insecurities and our strengths and weaknesses. One day you will meet someone who will love you for the person you are, whether you have it all together or not, and then that's when it will be "normal".
Hang in there, ok. Take care.
> I don't even want to say why. Something stupid. I just need some reasurance that I'm not a total loser who will never have a normal relationship with anyone ever. I feel like a freak of nature who will never get it completely together. Sure things are alot better than they were, but its still so far from normal.
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> -T
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