Posted by TexasChic on July 4, 2006, at 21:06:22
In reply to Re: I'm starting to feel ?, posted by Deneb on July 4, 2006, at 19:44:52
You're okay Deneb. Try not to worry so much what others think of you. Yeah, I know, not easy to do. Just do what you think is right for you.
I think what they were talking about above is more a communication issue than a personal defect. When you read a post, you think about it, and maybe even respond to the person in your head, then by the time you actually write back, you've already moved on to the next part of the conversation. This is very easy to do. Maybe try making it a point to specifically acknowledge what the person said before you write your response. I hope that helps, I can't really explain what I'm trying to say right. Which is exactly what I'm talking about! Its hard to communicate through 'just writing' and actually have it convey what you mean. But don't think this is a personal downfall. Its something we all have trouble with.
Hang in there Deneb. You are a great person.
-T
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