Posted by Deneb on May 26, 2006, at 23:36:52
In reply to Re: Sorry about going on and on about it » Deneb, posted by Phil on May 26, 2006, at 6:20:44
Hi Phil
I'm not too sure what you mean, but I think you are saying that Dr. Bob shouldn't accept my love?
I don't think I need Dr. Bob to accept my love. I mean, he didn't accept my scarf and I was okay with that... I just need to know that it's okay for *me* to love him. I surely don't expect him to love me back. I'm just glad he doesn't mind that I love him.
I find it interesting that you would go after the impossible love because you were afraid to love. Maybe that's happening with me. I'm afraid of real relationships. I'm not very good at them.
If someone just approached me out of the blue and said she/he loved me, I think I might be curious about it. I don't think it would be the start of any real relationship. I think I might be a little flattered and I think I might worry a little about hurting the other person's feelings because I don't share the love she/he feels.
Dr. Bob won't hurt me by not loving me back. I don't expect a real relationship with Dr. Bob. I wouldn't want a relationship. I just want to love him and for him to not mind and that's exactly what is happening. Everything is perfect just as it is. :-) I think maybe I like that Dr. Bob isn't even my friend. Friendships can get complicated. My Bob love is simple.
Deneb*
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