Posted by Maynerd on May 24, 2006, at 23:14:29
In reply to My first personal post, posted by pseudoname on May 24, 2006, at 19:10:01
Very interesting situation, but I might be able to provide a possible reason for what is going on. The behavior he has been subjecting you to may very well be a sort of defense mechanism. As it is directed towards you it suggests to me that you might very well be the source of his conflict. It may be that he feels threatened somehow by your relationship with your sister, you remind him of someone else in his past, or one of many other possible causes. Bottom line is, the behavior seems to be designed to keep you away, and it is working. Maybe I am wrong, I am sometimes. I don't know what to suggest as a solution, only that I hope everything works in YOUR best interest.
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