Posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 23:00:28
In reply to Dr. Bob doesn't answer my questions, posted by Deneb on March 8, 2006, at 22:31:27
I am guessing Dr. Bob isn't answering your questions about whether or not your professions of love are making him uncomfortable or not, because he doesn't want to hinder your expression and also because he has his boundaries, wouldn't want to make you uncomfortable, say something that would hurt you. Also, remember on the admin board that he was looking if I remember correctly to find others that had some things in common as far as for feelings for him too. So he is also observant more than probably one to answer those sort of questions. I know this is gonna sound silly perhaps, but it if were me and someone loved me in the way you have professed to loving Dr. Bob I may be flattered, but also feel a sense of obligation because it is hard to have to draw the line between wanting to help someone out and also know that a person cares about you. I think things will go great for you at the Babble party, and I do not think Dr. Bob will be afraid of you because it seems as if your love for Dr. Bob is innocent and that you almost look up to him in your own way because of your own personal life experiences. If I remember in a fuzzy sort of way. I am not afraid of you. I do not find you scary. I think you have a good heart, a good personality, and are going through a lot of things just like the rest of us. I have done my best to answer your post. Please do not be hard on yourself Deneb. There are a lot of people here that care about you, even if it seems (not the same as in real life at times) there are still real people behind the posts :) I am one of them. I really wish I could go to this Babble party. I am so so far away. I would love to meet you and Dr. Bob and the other Babblers. I think it would be awesome. Well, Deneb, take care and try to have some peace of mind. HUGS.
Tanzanite/Chelle
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