Posted by Tamar on December 29, 2005, at 19:59:16
In reply to Am i the only one who has done this ?, posted by bird in the sky on December 28, 2005, at 21:21:30
> I have this bad habit. I wonder if anyone else does. Probably not. I sometimes feel real horny and desirous of some connection. That's the best way i can explain it now. I masturbate and then when almost to come i call someone up (hopefully a recording) and let them hear me come. Sometimes i do it crying instead of coming. It's a bad habit i know, and i'm trying to break it. I have already told 2 people that i am the one that had been calling because it really seemed to bother them that they didn't know who i was. Luckily they didn't have me arrested or tell my husband. Now that i am seemingly oversexed i have this desire all the time and am hardly able to control it. I know i am going to get responses from you guys like "you had better control it!" or something along those lines, but what i really want to know, is whether anyone else has ever done this? bird
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>Didn’t you post about this on the Psychology board a couple of months ago? Have you considered talking to your therapist about it?
I think it’s probably hard to control, so I wouldn’t tell you to just control it. It’s very difficult to make those kinds of changes, and there’s probably a reason you do it; you must get something out of it that keeps you doing it.
I’m sure some other people have done it sometimes. It’s not something I’ve ever done, although I have heard of people doing similar things.
But if the people you’re phoning don’t know it’s you, then I think there’s a problem. I honestly don’t think it makes any difference whether you’re a man or a woman. I do think it’s something you need to talk about in therapy, because one day maybe someone will call the police or tell your husband. And that would be horrible for you. As a favour to yourself, I think you need to find a way of dealing with this.
Tamar
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