Posted by Damos on December 29, 2005, at 15:10:57
In reply to Re: sorry about that, posted by alexandra_k on December 28, 2005, at 22:57:52
> i think it is a triggering time of year.
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> i don't think it was so bad last year.
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> bad.
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> but not this bad.
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> i think this one is hard because they want to spend time with me.
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> i don't understand that.
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> why do they want to spend time with me?
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> do they enjoy this?
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> i don't understand.At the very simplest level maybe it's just because you're leaving, and there is a fear that you will never be back, and this triggers 'their' stuff. So they feel the need to try extra hard - which just has the net effect of making things worse. Dunno, maybe.
(((((Alex)))))
poster:Damos
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