Posted by happyflower on October 15, 2005, at 22:24:20
In reply to Re: The reason I am asking! tell me what you think! » happyflower, posted by lynn971 on October 15, 2005, at 22:02:51
> Now my marriage is on the rocks and I haven't been physically intimate with my DH for months (we have been married 12 years), so I think I am noticing men more
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> I have been there. I go through phases in which I am not interested in my husband.I am interested in my DH and love him, he is the one who is not wanting me! I have tried for months, and I can only take some much rejection. I have tried to get him to go therapy and he refuses. I am not saying I want an affair, it just I am noticing men noticing me, and it feels great. I just wonder why they would flirt with a married women.
But I made a promise to love him, so I choose to love him. I ask God to help me love him. The phase then passes. We wont always feel like we love our spouse, but love is not always a feeling. Sometimes it is a sacrifice.
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