Posted by orchid on October 7, 2005, at 14:14:11 [reposted on October 8, 2005, at 18:26:15 | original URL]
In reply to I dont think i have good responses to posts, posted by rjlockhart98 on October 6, 2005, at 22:55:58
Hi RJ,
I am sorry you are feeling slightly left out. I am sure it was totally unintentional for anyone here.
One small suggestion that I have - change your handle.
It is extremely hard to correlate rjlockhart98 to an actual person. Like real world, people have a tendency to associate a picture with a name. It is very hard to associate a picture with your name. That could possibly be the reason why you are not receiving as much of a response as you desire. Change it to something simpler, and something that probably associates with you in some way. That will really help the posters form a mental association with you.
Plus, frequent contribution is also a better idea if you want to be remembered and posted back to. Usually people tend to form a circle of friends, and it is just a natural aspect.. So, even if you don't have anything to say, just hang out here, and post every other day a line or two, and try to form kind of friendship with few people. That might also help.
Other than that, I have liked your posts in the past. I would definitely look particularly for your posts in the future and will reply.
poster:orchid
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