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Re: i want to live with my husband

Posted by octopusprime on July 19, 2005, at 2:03:05

In reply to Re: i want to live with my husband » octopusprime, posted by Dinah on July 18, 2005, at 20:56:03

sorry i've been busy with the wedding and all, so i haven't really been keeping up like i should *blush*

wedding was on canada day, in canada of course.

i met the groom last october, he's the brother-in-law of one of my coworkers at my last canadian job.

we decided to get married a couple of months after i moved to the usa.

*spoiler: nausea inducement below*

it was really sweet actually. one of those guys who was a lone wolf (he's 32 now, never been married and never had a relationship that lasted this long). he's "giving love a chance". (competing theory: he's getting old and his joints and body are getting old and brittle, so he can't ski/jump 50ft cliffs/swing a hammer 10 hours a day/surf in 5C water every weekend/play tennis like he used to).

he was lonely, i was lonely. we went to dinners, we enjoyed each other's company. he gets me outside and teaches me sports and encourages me. i teach him about gourmet cooking and wine and books and computers.

he was here for a bit over a week in the usa after we were married and it was wonderful (all the time in the world to talk and always doing something different and doing all the little affectionate nice things when coming and sitting and going) and hard in a good way (he has anxiety and he was quitting smoking pot so there was lots of emotion).

his dad called me today and was retelling the story of how he was hit by a bus on the honeymoon (or right after?) and spent two years in and out of hospital. don't worry he says. in 20 years you'll laugh about it. but he says to "my heart breaks for you guys". it was sweet

i want to live in a house with love in it. it's nice


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