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Posted by Mal on July 16, 2005, at 18:07:44

In reply to Re: here again; Sleepy and » Mal, posted by crazy teresa on July 15, 2005, at 15:16:08

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> I've been married a while and it seems like whenever my husband started acting like you say yours is, it usually wasn't why I thought it was. Men's minds are different than ours. You think he doesn't want another baby, however, he may be thinking only about the financial pressures of another child, not that he doesn't want one. Or maybe he's afraid you won't have any time at all left for him if you have another child.
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Teresa, I didn't have time earlier to post my complete thought on this. Yes, DH's mind is VERY different than mine, and I usually do guess wrong about the WHYs when it comes to him. He is sensitive and thoughtful, but not much into stating his feelings, or discussing/arguing about things we disagree on. SO we haven't gone over pros and cons of another baby. I am handling this like I did when I wanted to have a baby before. I told him I wasn't taking the pill anymore and if he didn't want to have a baby it was up to him to do something about it. LOL I guess I am gambling he won't go get a vasectomy!! That may be not a very diplomatic way to be, and I wouldn't do it if we couldn't afford it. But then again, I took care of our BC for 7 years- surely he could take care of it for a couple of years LOL!!

ANyway, thanks for "listening".
MAL


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