Posted by Deneb on June 23, 2005, at 23:35:17
In reply to Re: I don't feel connected anymore :-( » Deneb, posted by alexandra_k on June 23, 2005, at 22:43:29
> Hey. I'm just explaining my take. It is hard though. And it does feel unsettling sometimes especially when people come and go all the time, as you say.
For me it also has to do with a sense of time I think...
I quickly forget the presence of someone when they go away for a short period of time. It is almost like they don't exist anymore. Sometimes it is very hard for me to think how others are thinking.> ...I think the only way to feel connected in all respects is to have a variety of different friends who are able to connect with you in different ways.
That will be hard for me. I'm very bad at keeping track of these things. When I need something I often expect everyone to reply...it is difficult to realize that people can still care but not reply.
> You can be a good friend to yourself by being kind to yourself and not giving yourself a hard time.
That would be very handy...to be able to comfort myself when I need it.
I gotta go to bed now. I'm tired. Tomorrow should be a busy day at work...being Friday.
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