Posted by Tamar on June 6, 2005, at 17:23:53
In reply to caraher, posted by Damos on June 6, 2005, at 16:45:50
> > Afterward is another story... what I should have done, what I wished I hadn't.
>
> Oh yeah, know that story well too. Hope we can both find a place where we don't ever need to feel like this.I hope so too. Because I think sex shouldn't be about following a formula; or about doing things on a list, or not doing particular things. Anything you didn't do today, you can do tomorrow. Anything that didn't feel quite right today can be changed tomorrow, just like any other way of expressing love or appreciation for someone else.
Sex is almost never perfect; it's a work in progress. Every time we do it, it acquires new nuances.
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