Posted by 10derHeart on April 18, 2005, at 22:16:33
In reply to Re: Susan GET ON THAT PLANE QUICK!!! » Susan47, posted by damos on April 14, 2005, at 22:06:24
>>..so I push them away because they deserve better than that or they drift away cause I'm so tied in nots and too much like hard work...<<
Damos, I know I'm intruding a bit, and I hope this isn't too far out of line. But this part of what you said just pierced right to my heart and stopped me cold.
You know, there are women who are capable of loving in such a strong and centered way that they will not be pushed away. Will NOT be.
You know, there are women who can feel great empathy for *tied in knots*, and look at it not as something to be avoided, but just as another aspect to love because it's a real part of Damos.And you know, there are DEFINITELY women who would take your very human hurts, fears, and worries and relish the "hard work" as part of truly, fully, being with you. Ever hear of a labor of love?
I think you are brave and beautiful and a blessing to all of us.
Just wanted you to know.
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