Posted by alexandra_k on February 7, 2005, at 13:06:39
In reply to Re: Please...I beg for help with girlfriend problem.., posted by Miss Honeychurch on February 7, 2005, at 8:46:19
Hmm. I do believe Miss Honeychurch might be on to something...
I would be very wary of someone who can't take a compliment (they are allowed to be embarrassed - but not negate them all the time).
It is draining to be with someone who is going round these circles in their head all the time. And for someone who is prone to that way of thinking themself it can be nearly impossible to refrain from getting sucked back down that big black hole.
You can't fix it for her. She needs help and hard work to help herself get better. If she was on that journey already then you could walk it together, but by the sounds of it she hasn't started yet??
I dunno...
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