Posted by alesta on January 25, 2005, at 15:04:51
In reply to Pls help..more of Jay's on-line dating adventures., posted by jay on January 25, 2005, at 9:16:53
> Ok...so I finally got this one gal who lives nearby talking to me. We talked on InstantMessanger for awhile, and the words flowed very nice. We seemed to hit it off well. Not just once, or twice, or three times...but all the time. So, now she gave me her phone number to call her.
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> The first night we chat is good, like usual, we seem to be on the same wavelength from everything from intellectual to wants/needs levels. But, a few 'glitches' have appeared, and are turning me a bit cold already.
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> One, she often talks in our phone conversations about how she was talking to "so and so" male from the same date website that day, and "..he started asking some sexual questions." Ok..fine...but then she tells me the next day, then the next, then the next, etc, similar stories about one or two guys! She say's she is not looking for a 'fling', yet she is IM'ing, talking by phone, etc, all of these guys who she say's she is 'not interested in'.(Not even as friends.)
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> Then, for the past few nights, she told me to call her at a certain time, which I did, and her phone line is busy. So I take a hunch...and have a peek and see that she *is* live on the dating website again...all night without regards to my phone calls! This happened a number of times. I told her if you are going to be on there, just tell me not to call. She just brushed it off, and even before we meet, I am not trusting her motives. I told her what I was looking for...she initially said the same. I honestly don't want to end up dating some lying bed-jumper. Last night when I did get a chance to talk to her, man, I had chilled quite a bit, and felt a bit nauseated about the situation.
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> Yes, I know I haven't "met" her, and haven't talked long, but when somebody starts making you think of more questions than answers, and is acting in a rather rude and unattractive way, maybe I should just be *outta there*.
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> Jayhi jay,:)
good advice from the others..nip this in the bud now..you deserve better. best of luck.:) be *patient* for ms. right...don't settle for the attitudes...look for someone who's kind and caring and makes you feel good about yourself.
amy:)
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