Posted by yoshimi on December 1, 2004, at 20:42:58
In reply to What's it really like having a significant other?, posted by Angela2 on December 1, 2004, at 18:50:14
Tough questions.
I think i have been in that kinda relationship a few times. course, none of my relationships have worked out. No one I dated seemed to WANT a long term relationship. And they were all crabby all the time about one thing or another. Picking fights and stuff. Sex was good (well in a few of them).You don't have to have a boyfriend if you don't want to. There aren't any rules. I tend to dive in to relationships and then they don't work out. So now as bad as i want to be in a comfortable loving relationship, at the same time I just want stressfree fun one night stands. Then if I dont like him or he doesnt like me after that, then who cares. But i suppose that is immature of me. And there is still the part of me that wants that real relationship.
But the picking the guy part. Your guess is as good as mine. Im all skinny right now, and it seems like people want to go out with me, but flings feel safer cuz i know that they all seem nice, but i know what happens is we get alll comfortable in our relationship and start eating pizzas and going to movies and staying in chilling on the sofa with our chinese takeout and dvds and the pounds pile up and then they are like 'hun, you are putting on the pounds, why dont you go for a run or something', even though their stupid beer gut is like twice the size of your tiny little pooch'.
oh YOSHIMI, shut up!
Im sorry Angela, I am probably no help at all.
As you can see, I don't know what the hell i am talking about. I just know that I dont trust men anymoer, but i still want sex, so whats a girl to do. Id say trust your gut feeling, and if you think its all right, try it out for a bit.Good luck and sorry for rambling about my own mess.
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