Posted by pegasus on November 4, 2004, at 11:34:51
In reply to Re: Would you be able to do it?, posted by saw on November 4, 2004, at 9:07:25
Oh, I hope that it becomes such a good experience for you two that it erases all of the bad vibes from your bad past there. I don't blame you for being nervous. It's hard to go back to the scene of a trauma. But maybe it could end up being healing? Have you been doing any therapy work around this? It sounds like a doozy, and something that would be perfect to work on in therapy.
If I were in your shoes, I'd want to do some type of ceremony in the house before I moved in, to chase away the bad spirits (metaphorically). There are people of all different faiths that will come and bless a house. Are you religious at all? Or would it be possible to make up your own ritual that would help you feel that you'd removed the bad juju before you move in? Like maybe painting the walls a different color, or saying a meaningful poem, or putting something (a picture, a figure) in the house that you think of as your guardian? Just some crazy ideas.
pegasus
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