Posted by headachequeen on October 29, 2004, at 15:43:09 [reposted on October 30, 2004, at 1:31:25 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Today's date..., posted by stresser on October 29, 2004, at 8:03:40
> Good morning everyone, things are going smoothly here so far. Knock on wood. M can't ride her bike to school because we live 10 miles away and the snow would start to cause a problem for her within the next month or so!!! Rainy- do you live in a warm climate? It's been raining here on and off for several days now, and the leaves are falling in clumps! What a mess, the dog drags in leaves, so now I feel like I should rake the carpet! <G> Have you tried to babble mail me agian? I haven't seen anything. I feel that I can easily become addicted to this site. I get on here and lose track of time, then I'm late to my morning "coke meeting" with my friends. (Several of us meet for a "real" fountain coke, syrup, soda water, the old fashioned thing. I'm ADDICTED to them.)
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> Kat- Thanks for the suggestion to ask M for help, I never thought about that for helping her self-esteem. What a wonderful idea, thanks once again. I am not gaining weight that will effect my job, thank heavens!!! Whew. YET. If I don't stop with the candy and COOKIES, I'm sure I will put on some. I know I have about five pounds I need to take off, because I don't like the way my cloths feel. I WILL NOT GET ON THE SCALE, until I know it's off. Haaaaaa I'm not fooling myself, I just don't want to see it. I'm taking the course so I can work more, I have also been thinking about it for around a year or so because it looks like something I would love to do. Must go, I think today I will make that coke a diet. Ewwwww. Better than nothing. -LWell, then, L admit to her that you refuse to face the scale until you are sure you have lost the five pounds and you need her help to do that... this is a form of binbe eating... and you as an adult are not above needing help, HER help...
get her help with the exercises and stuff for the classes too...
I am an expert now on dealing with daughters... all the things I know now how to do because I have years of thinking of how I should coulda...
I have a toilet paper ribbon door thing I thought of too late that would have saved so much trouble... and so many others...
You are human and she needs to know it...
and she can help... use the two factors...
that and topomax can help her...and real soda fountain coke.. maybe when you are both doing well you two could share one of those times and really talk....
what a concept...kat
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