Posted by ghost on May 23, 2004, at 12:28:50
In reply to Never going to be a mom :(, posted by pegasus on May 18, 2004, at 15:47:32
i don't want kids... they're just not my style. but if i were to have kids, i'd adopt in a heartbeat. i know it's not the same as going through the pregnancy process, and having the child of your own flesh and blood, but i think family is what you make it... not who was born into it. i think there are so many children out there without homes or who are born into ufortunate circumstances, that adoption is better than the "real thing" because not only are you making a family out of *love* but you're improving the life of someone who might not otherwise have had a second chance at a good life themselves.
just my two cents. i do feel your pain, but i think it would be just as much of a blessing to adopt a child as to birth one yourself.
good luck with everything. keep us posted.
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